What type of soil are you?

Bible reading

People kept coming to Jesus from one town after another; and when a great crowd gathered, Jesus told this parable:

Once there was a man who went out to sow grain. As he scattered the seed in the field, some of it fell along the path, where it was stepped on, and the birds ate it up.  Some of it fell on rocky ground, and when the plants sprouted, they dried up because the soil had no moisture.  Some of the seed fell among thorn bushes, which grew up with the plants and choked them.  And some seeds fell in good soil; the plants grew and bore grain, one hundred grains each.

And Jesus concluded,
‘Listen, then, if you have ears!’

His disciples asked Jesus what this parable meant, and he answered,
‘The knowledge of the secrets of the Kingdom of God has been given to you, but to the rest it comes by means of parables, so that they may look but not see, and listen but not understand.

 This is what the parable means: the seed is the word of God.The seeds that fell along the path stand for those who hear; but the Devil comes and takes the message away from their hearts in order to keep them from believing and being saved. The seeds that fell on rocky ground stand for those who hear the message and receive it gladly. But it does not sink deep into them; they believe only for a while but when the time of testing comes, they fall away. The seeds that fell among thorn bushes stand for those who hear; but the worries and riches and pleasures of this life crowd in and choke them, and their fruit never ripens. The seeds that fell in good soil stand for those who hear the message and retain it in a good and obedient heart, and they persist until they bear fruit.

Luke 8:4-15 (The Message Bible)

Talk

One of the things that most people know Jesus for is his parables..  Parables like the prodigal son, the lost sheep, the Good Samaritan, are well known stories.  But no so well known are the sentences which are also parables; “Can the blind lead the blind?  Will they both fall into the pit?”  or even the 3 words, “Physician, heal yourself”(Luke 4;23)

So what is orange and sounds like a parrot?  A carrot.

A riddle is a figure of speech that needs to be worked out by lateral thinking, parables are riddles.

Jesus told parables.  This parable was included that we might take it to heart – as a mystery or riddle to ponder.  We need to get inside it, to enter into it with fresh eyes and a new perspective.

Jesus’ parables and questions, and perhaps everything else he did were intended to make sitting on the fence far more difficult and less comfortable.  He was and still is asking us to make a choice.

So,…what about this parable?

Well there is less of mystery in this parable because Jesus makes an explanation to the Disciples so that is a help.

The parable is about seed but it is also about four different types of soil.  The seed is the word of God or the Gospel, the Good News.  The soil is made up of four different types that produce different results.

  1. Seed that falls on the path hears the message but the Devil comes and takes it away before it can even germinate.  Some us might struggle with thoughts of a Devil or deceiver but Jesus us very clear here, and through the rest of the Gospel, that the Devil exists.
  2. Seed that falls on the rocky ground begins to grow but when a time of testing or hardship come then the roots are not strong enough to resist and the plants initial growth withers and dies.  A time of testing or hardship can come in a whole different variety of ways.
  3. Seed that fall amongst the thorns never ripens.  The worries and pleasure of this world, whatever you might understand those to be, strangle the plants and it never produces fruit.
  4. The final soil is good soil.  It is able to bear fruit and there is a harvest.

So we need to get inside this parable, here are a few questions to get you thinking and discussing.

Discussion

 

Now the focus has been on what type of soil we are.  But from what I understand of this parable we are also called to be gardeners, we are called to sow seed, we are called to share the Gospel.  That is a sign of fruitfulness, if a plant grows to maturity it will reproduce.  It will produce more seeds to be sown.

I think that is why Jesus says to the his audience.

 ‘Listen, then, if you have ears!’

It’s a clever play on words.  Crops such as wheat and barley have ears, i.e. they have borne fruit, there is a harvest.  Fruitfulness is about attentive obedience,

So let’s turn this around.

Followers of Jesus are all called to be gardeners.  So here are a few pointers for seed sowers;

  • Seed sowers are in a cosmic battle.  There is a battle going on between good and evil, between the Good News of the Gospel and the deceiver.  We need to be aware of this fact, we need to arm ourselves for the fight, otherwise we are left exposed and at risk.  Ephesians 6 is a good place to start. Learn a simple Celtic circling prayer.
  • There are consequences of falling away.  There are consequences of soil never doing what it is supposed to do when the seed is planted within it – bear fruit.
  • Worries, riches and pleasures will take nutrients out of the soil, the consequences are fruitlessness.  Seed sowers need to be fed with things that will feed the seed and plant of the Good News growing within you.  Luke talks more about the consequences of the worries, riches and pleasures than any other Gospel writer. It is Luke who has the stories of the parable of the rich fool (Luke 12) , the rich man and Lazarus(Luke 16), the rich man (Luke19) the story of Zacchaeus (Luke 19), the warnings of storing up riches in heaven, the Widows offering (Luke 21).  Maybe reading Luke’s Gospel over and over again wouldn’t be a bad thing to do.
  • Good soil is those who hear the word and hold it, they hold it tight,….Fruitfulness is brought about by an honest and good heart who perseveres.  Associating with Jesus will not bring us popularity.  This parable calls for reflection, we need to cling to the Good News in patient faith to bear fruit and to sow fruit.

Communities all over the country are seeing seeds sown and fruit born. Lives are being changed by Jesus. Everyone of the people on the clip talked about being part of a community, ‘free to be yourself’, fruit bearing is not an individual activity, it needs a community for fruit to be brought forth.
 

 

Fruits of the Spirit – Patience

Then he said, “There was once a man who had two sons.  The younger said to his father, ‘Father, I want right now what’s coming to me.’
So the father divided the property between them.  It wasn’t long before the younger son packed his bags and left for a distant country. There, undisciplined and dissipated, he wasted everything he had.  After he had gone through all his money, there was a bad famine all through that country and he began to hurt.  He signed on with a citizen there who assigned him to his fields to slop the pigs.  He was so hungry he would have eaten the corncobs in the pig slop, but no one would give him any.
That brought him to his senses. He said, ‘All those farmhands working for my father sit down to three meals a day, and here I am starving to death.  I’m going back to my father. I’ll say to him, Father, I’ve sinned against God, I’ve sinned before you; I don’t deserve to be called your son. Take me on as a hired hand.’  He got right up and went home to his father.
When he was still a long way off, his father saw him. His heart pounding, he ran out, embraced him, and kissed him.  The son started his speech: ‘Father, I’ve sinned against God, I’ve sinned before you; I don’t deserve to be called your son ever again.’
But the father wasn’t listening. He was calling to the servants, ‘Quick. Bring a clean set of clothes and dress him. Put the family ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.  Then get a grain-fed heifer and roast it. We’re going to feast! We’re going to have a wonderful time!  My son is here-given up for dead and now alive! Given up for lost and now found!’ And they began to have a wonderful time.

Luke 15:11-32 The Message

Just to recap – Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self control -all ordinary, mundane words and yet if we were to live them out more regularly in our lives we could transform the world.a-permanent-becoming-alan-mann
The Bible says we are to have all of the fruit so that we can become more like Jesus – that suddenly sounds much more cutting edge and less goody-goody.  To be more like Christ offers us the chance to be more authentic, fully awake, self aware, at one with ourselves, with others, with creation, with the Divine.  Remember Jesus was fully human, fully authentically human as well as fully God.
When Jesus became human then he put that “Godness” aside.  He was fully human and relied on his relationship with God his Father and the Spirit to live out being fully human.  That seems more accessible to me.  What about you?
So when we are talking about patience we’re not talking about feeling frustrated when we’re stuck in traffic, or an inability to wait for our next holiday?
Can you remember watching your favorite show on a Saturday night only for the cliff hanger words “to be continued next week”?  Now we can just flick over to another channel and watch next week’s show right now.  We live in age where we expect things instantly – fast food, ready meals, easy credit.  Emails/broadband everything has to be quick, fast, we don’t do waiting anymore.  There is no value in it.
But it would be easy just to be critical of our world.  Our ease of communication does mean we can more quickly convey sympathy, love and care but do we use it for that or do we send text and emails that are hurtful “dumped by text” “or sacked by email”.  Many of us will have been on the receiving end of a text or email which if said to our faces would have been conveyed with more care and a different tone.
The pace of our lives is the culture we live in. It’s the world we know and we are adapting so that we can live at this faster pace.  We design technology to help us cope with the pace.  However it is part of our make up as human beings to need time to reflect and consider on our lives, where are we going, what are we doing?
It’s a bit like checking the map or setting the sat-nav before you set off, perhaps stopping en-route to make sure you’re not lost or to enjoy a particular view.
And so the fruit of patience cuts across the culture we live in.  God challenges us to live within this culture of pace and immediacy and yet to reflect, to learn to weigh up and to develop the skills of waiting.
God is a God of patience – you might not think that reading the creation story literally in genesis.  Creating the world in 7 days is pretty quick but let’s look at the bigger story.  From the outset God’s desire is for a world and a creation that relates to him as Father.
How long had God been planning and designing his world, how many different stellar constellations had he contemplated, how many different shades of blue for the sky?  Then when the humans God creates choose not to be in relationship how long does he spend winning them back.  The Bible is essentially that – a love story of a father who is trying to draw back his estranged children through the creation that he established in the first place.  What patience?!
There is God making a covenant (a promise) with a man called Abraham that it would be his descendants that would be God’s special people who would be charged with the responsibility of drawing all of humanity back to God.  They are to be a light to the nations.
A few 100 years later we see Moses, again chosen by God leading these special people out of slavery to lead them to a special land where they can again live lives that would draw all of humanity back to God.  Add another 1500 years and we find God’s special people in exile and so God sends his prophets to encourage them and challenge them to live as lights to the rest of the world.  Add a few 100 more years and see angels pronouncing the birth of the Saviour.  Jesus show God’s people how to live in relationship with their Father.  Even then the Saviour doesn’t arrive in a show of force and power and its actually his death which provides the way forward and opens out the definition of God’ people to include all of humanity.  And we’re still living through seeing his death bring people back to the Father.Perhaps now it makes sense why I chose the bible reading for today.  This is the picture of the father waiting for his children to come home.  That’s patience!  Are we up for it?  How can we learn patience like that?  I think there’s a clue in the words of the next song.
So patience is learnt through handling the tough times that lives hands out.  Patience isn’t inactive – its what we do with the wait in the meantime.
Patience is something that has to grow in layers and in strength. Patience is something that can only grow within us by being tested and tried. So, unfortunately, it would seem that the only way we can become more patient is to have our patience tested. Which means lots of irritating experiences to look forward to.
We think when we pray God help me to be more patient that we will suddenly feel more patient.  But not true – our lives are an exercise in learning to be patient.
Leonardo da Vinci once said that “Patience serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you put on more clothes as the cold increases it will have no power to hurt you. So in like manner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind.”
What worries me though is my personal observation that for many people the Christian faith is like a sweet offered, grabbed, and gobbled up – easy, uncomplicated, just accept Jesus and all will be well.  That’s why many people today reject the Christian faith as not having any credibility.  They know life isn’t easy, that relationships are messy and hard to maintain.  We need Christians who are willing to live real Christian lives.  The fruit of patience if taken to heart means to live a life that refuses the easy/quick answer, the faith that grows in difficult circumstances by learning to wait – our faith will in fact be stronger and more genuine
The Christian faith doesn’t require you to just to accept the glib response that God knows or understands when life sucks.  But it seems to me that patience/ learning to wait in the dark times of life results in a deeper understanding of God and deeper relationship with him.
So being in relationship with God means an ability to wait and learning to wait well. Normally we wait by doing nothing, moaning, getting angry or frustrated or perhaps even seeking revenge.  Let’s learn from God the father the skill of waiting and acknowledge the pain of waiting.

Lookin’ back, I don’t regret
One single day.
Memories will keep me close
When you walk away.
It’s harder then I could imagine.
Yes I should have known that.
Close your eyes and I’ll be there.
I’ll come runnin’ anywhere.
CHORUS
Say goodbye, I’ll be okay.
I will wait for you cause
True love will never fade.
When it’s real, you can feel it.
And I know,
That you know,
That I will keep on waitin’
Patiently…
Patiently… for you.
Stormy tuesday afternoons
Never been the same.
I used to stand outside
And taste
The sweetness of them.
It’s harder when it really happens
Oh I wish I’d known that.
Close my eyes and you’re there.
But I can’t find you anywhere.
Say goodbye, I’ll be okay.
I will wait for you cause
True love will never fade
When it’s real, you can feel it.
And I know,
That you know.
That I will keep on waiting
Patiently…
Patiently… for you.
Patiently…
So patiently…
When I’m lost, I try to find you.
Turn around, I’m right be-hind you.
ay goodbye, I’ll be okay.
I will wait for you cause.
True love will never fade,
When it’s real you can feel it.
And I know,
That you know.
That I will keep on waiting,
Patiently…
Patiently… for you…
Patiently…
Patiently…
Patiently…

Patiently by Emma Lahana (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emma_Lahana)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVHrlU5z6VY

We have a chance to respond to that tonight -
Three time out zones :

  • Are you waiting?, come and sit with the Father God who knows how that feels
  • Are you the one God is waiting for?
  • Would you like to grow in patience?  Not for the faint hearted, ready to undergo the trial of suffering

They broke your heart
They took your soul
You’re hurt inside
Because there’s a hole
You need some time
To be alone
Then you will find
What you’ve always known

I’m the one
who really loves you baby
I’ve been knocking at your door

As long as I’m living, I’ll be waiting
As long as I’m breathing,
I’ll be there
Whenever you call me,
I’ll be waiting
Whenever you need me,
I’ll be there

I’ve seen you cry
Into the night
I feel your pain
Can I make it right
I realize, there’s no end in sight
Yet still I’ll wait
For you to see the light

I’m the one
who really loves you baby
I can’t take it anymore

As long as I’m living, I’ll be waiting
As long as I’m breathing,
I’ll be there
Whenever you call me,
I’ll be waiting
Whenever you need me,
I’ll be there

You are the only one
I’ve ever known
That makes me feel this way
Couldn’t do it on my own
I want to be with you
until we’re old

You have the love you need right in front of you
Please come home

As long as I’m living, I’ll be waiting
As long as I’m breathing,
I’ll be there
Whenever you call me,
I’ll be waiting
Whenever you need me,
I’ll be there

As long as I’m living, I’ll be waiting
As long as I’m breathing,
I’ll be there
Whenever you call me,
I’ll be waiting
Whenever you need me,
I’ll be there

Lenny Kravitz & Craig Ross I’ll be waiting
It Is Time for a Love Revolution (2008).

Fruits of the Spirit – Peace

peace-hammock

22 But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 humility, and self-control. There is no law against such things as these. 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have put to death their human nature with all its passions and desires. 25 The Spirit has given us life; he must also control our lives. 26 We must not be proud or irritate one another or be jealous of one another.
Galatians 5: 22-23 (The Message)

Just to recap – Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self control – sound all a bit ordinary, mundane, worthy even.  They are all “nice” words – words to describe your granny or your colleague at work.  Let’s face it they’re just not very sexy or exciting
The fruit then – designed to make the world a better place but they’re not going to turn the world upside down or on its head. Or will they?  If we could all be more of these things – wouldn’t it turn the world upside down?
The Bible says we are to have all of the fruit so that we can become more like Jesus – that suddenly sounds much more cutting edge and less goody-goody.  To be more like Christ offers us the chance to be more authentic, fully awake, self aware, at one with ourselves, with others, with creation, with the Divine.  Remember Jesus was fully human, fully authentically human.  If he used his God-side, his Son of Godness – then that leaves us nowhere.  We can’t be like Jesus as we don’t have that being Godness.  When Jesus became human then he put that “Godness” aside.  He was fully human and relied on his relationship with God his Father and the Spirit to live out being fully human.  That seems more accessible to me.  What about you?
So we are spending some time looking more deeply at these fruits.  Did you see bananas differently last week – did joy bubble up from within as you stayed connected with each other and with God.  This week we’re peeling back the skin of our next fruit, going behind the glib words and trying to grapple with what it means tomorrow at 11am – the fruit of peace.
We’re going to let Jesus and the Spirit help us to define what it means – not the world we live in.  We need to peel back the skin of the world we live in so we can understand what influences our thoughts and behaviour.  And then we have to bring the two together.

1 There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth:
2 A right time for birth and another for death,
A right time to plant and another to reap,
3 A right time to kill and another to heal,
A right time to destroy and another to construct,
4 A right time to cry and another to laugh,
A right time to lament and another to cheer,
5 A right time to make love and another to abstain,
A right time to embrace and another to part,
6 A right time to search and another to count your losses,
A right time to hold on and another to let go,
7 A right time to rip out and another to mend,
A right time to shut up and another to speak up,
8 A right time to love and another to hate, A right time to wage war and another to make peace.
Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8  (The Message)

There we have it – a time to destroy and a time to construct, a time for war, a time for peace,
First thoughts – peace – a haven, tranquil, serene, quiet, calm, stillness,
Then on reading Ecclesiastes I thought peace – an absence of war, action, peace-making, an active role in dealing with conflict
And suddenly I was less sure about this fruit of peace.  I’ll sign up for the first but not sure about the second.sharon-fruit
Then I began to read about the idea of Shalom – the Hebrew concept of peace which informs both the Old and New Testament and refers to a state of well-being. It is a wholeness or harmony that infuses all of our relationships. This is what is meant by shalom.
It is, therefore, social by nature. So, just as peace is more than cessation of violence. It is also more than an inward serenity – or “peace of mind.” Peace needs to become a way of life. An active decision.  The idea of “shalom”  – peace – is there throughout the bible
Creation – God made peace out of chaos – creation was full and abundant, without enmity or strife
Exile – the prophets evoked pictures of a return to a land of plenty, flowing with milk and honey, where deserts will become orchards, honesty and justice will prosper
Jesus – gospels, peace on earth the angels declared, my peace I give to you, not like the peace that the earth gives, a peace that passes all understanding, peace to stormy waters “be still”, to the sick, “be well” to the dead “live”
Revelation – there will be no more crying, no more pain.

And peace comes in three parts (RRP)-

  • Responsibilities – to work with God in establishing peace. Wherever an injustice is put right, an environmental victory is won, or reconciliation achieved then the cause of peace is advanced
  • Response – we have to have a willingness to confront situations that need a response, not walk away or keep silent.  Pursuit of peace is not an easygoing peace at any price.  Jesus was confrontational in order to bring about peace. But it was a robust, creative and active engagement – walk the extra mile, turn the other cheek, love your enemies – really tough stuff
  • And finally People -We tend to think peace – a global issue, me a drop in the ocean, or closer to home – warring factions over the politics of faith or immigration. Peace building is a community activity not an individual pursuit.  Jesus’ death on the cross offers us both peace between us and God, but also between us and those other people who are different to us, who we don’t understand and it’s easier to believe the worst of.

But there is a reason why shalom is harder than it sounds. It is because our culture would wish to fragment us.  For one thing our culture forces us into two lives – a public life and a private life. Our public life is a life built with agreed upon “facts.” Our private life is that of personal preferences, opinions and values. And everything that can’t get agreed upon in the public arena gets put in the private. And so our faith, in our society and culture, gets relegated to the private arena. It doesn’t seem like such a big deal until you come to the realization that it allows us and perhaps even pushes us to be a different person in public than we are in private. Have you ever had the thought “I can’t wait to get home, so I can just be myself?”
Peace. It is not just a cessation of violence; although I am convinced it leads to that. It’s not just an inner serenity; although I am convinced your life will be filled with it.
Peace is knowing who you are in Christ, with such a public persona, that the world begins to react to you and you do not need to react to the world.
Does it sound impossible? Well, the good news is that God has stepped in and offered us resources to live in ways that are unthinkable apart from God. God has intervened and made it possible for us to live lives that are a foretaste of the wholeness, the shalom, that is promised when God’s kingdom comes in all its fullness. When you live by the spirit of God, you can bear the fruit of the spirit of God, and experience peace.
Coconut – idyllic, tranquil serene or the Sharon fruit – slightly bitter, out on the edge, not a popular fruit by any coconut3means.
Sharon Fruit are now a major export of Israel, which might lead you to think the name is somewhat biblical, along the lines of “Rose of Sharon” and all that. The fruit was, however, actually developed in Japan as a variety of Persimmon. The Sharon valley is close to Tel Aviv and a peace initiative called The Valley of Peace is an official joint effort of the Israeli, Palestinian and Jordanian governments.  It is located in the northern Sharon Valley of Israel.
Sharon fruit looks very much like a persimmon; the difference is that you can eat it while it is still firm without your entire face puckering up on you, as it would do with a firm persimmon.
Coconut – might bring out pictures of a tropical paradise, but it’s a hard nut to crack and takes some effort to enjoy the fruit it has to offer

Fruits of the Spirit – Joy

(We are all supposed to eat more fruit – five portions a day. We are also told that “we are what we eat”. But what if fruit is not what we eat – but what we produce? What if we can be transformed, from the inside out, to /produce/ fruit?

Sounds strange – but it is true. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self control are all fruit produced by the very same force that was there at the beginning of time. You never know, some of the fruit of this force might even help you to eat more healthily. Come along and try.)a-permanent-becoming-alan-mann

22 But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 humility, and self-control. There is no law against such things as these. 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have put to death their human nature with all its passions and desires. 25 The Spirit has given us life; he must also control our lives. 26 We must not be proud or irritate one another or be jealous of one another.
Galatians 3: 22-23 (The Message)

But let’s be honest the fruit  as the Bible describes them – Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self control – sound all a bit ordinary, mundane, worthy even.  They are all “nice” words – words to describe your granny or your colleague at work.  Let’s face it they’re just not very sexy or exciting
If you’re talking about a smoothie then goodness is key but we all want to be seen as being a bit more interesting than that don’t we? – A bit more cutting edge, not so goody-goody.  As the advert says “do you have a wicked side?” The fruit then – designed to make the world a better place but they’re not going to turn the world upside down or on its head.
Instead we pursue what the world tells us counts as success and achievement.
And the church and Christians – do they pursue these fruits? Well no, they’re more interested in the gifts of the spirit – healings, miracles, prophecy, raising the dead, words of knowledge.  They sell more books, engage people in more discussions, did it really happen, how can we prove it?

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not suggesting that the gifts are a bad thing – after all if I’m stuck in a hospital bed, a bowl of fruit isn’t great, I’d prefer to receive the gift of healing however…
I’m not often lying in a hospital bed and there are far more times when I am in need of a kind word or a patient pause or a time of peace. So on a day to day basis maybe the fruits deserve more profile than we give them.
And …. The Bible says we are to have all of the fruit so that we can become more like Jesus – that suddenly sounds much more cutting edge and less goody-goody.  To be more like Christ offers us the chance to be more authentic, fully awake, self aware, at one with ourselves, with others, with creation, with the Divine.  Remember Jesus was fully human, fully authentically human.  If he used his God-side, his Son of Godness – then that leaves us nowhere.  We can’t be like Jesus as we don’t have that being Godness.  When Jesus became human then he put that “Godness” aside.  He was fully human and relied on his relationship with God his Father and the Spirit to live out being fully human.  That seems more accessible to me.  What about you?  And isn’t that what drives our search for spirituality – the sense that there is more to life. To me?

So we should spend some time looking more deeply at these fruits.  Being good is more than helping old ladies across the street and not kicking the cat if it helps become more like Jesus – over the next few weeks we’re going to take some time to look at a fruit of the spirit in more detail.  We’re going to peel back the skin of a fruit each week to discover the depths beneath.  We’re going to let Jesus and the Spirit help us to define what it means – not the world we live in.  We need to peel back the skin of the world we live in so we can understand what influences our thoughts and behaviour.  And then we have to bring the two together.

Youtube clip – ‘How to be happy – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1YAzAu3Ut6c

Britain is less happy than in the 1950s – despite the fact that we are three times richer.
The proportion of people saying they are “very happy” has fallen from 52% in 1957 to just 36% today.
The opinion poll by GfK NOP for The Happiness Formula series on BBC Two provides the first evidence that Britain’s happiness levels are declining – a trend already well documented in the United States.
Polling data from Gallup throughout the 1950s shows happiness levels above what they are today, suggesting that our extra wealth has not brought extra well-being.
It could even be making matters worse.
The British experience mirrors data from America, where social scientists have seen levels of life satisfaction gradually decline over the last quarter of a century.
In the early 1970s, 34% of those interviewed in the General Social Survey described themselves as “very happy”.
By the late 1990s, the figure was 30% – a small but statistically significant drop.
The story of wealth failing to translate into extra happiness is the story of the Western world.
In almost every developed country, happiness levels have remained largely static over the past 50 years – despite huge increases in income.
What the happiness research suggests is that once average incomes reach about £10,000 a year, extra money does not make a country any happier.
Should politicians try to make us happier?

In our opinion poll we asked whether the government’s prime objective should be the “greatest happiness” or the “greatest wealth”.

A remarkable 81% wanted happiness as the goal. Only 13% wanted greatest wealth.

I’m not sure I see it as the Government’s job is to make us happy.  Is happiness the right pursuit for us?  Isn’t that just a selfish aim?  Or is it OK if we want others to be happy too?  But what about the old mantra – you can’t please all the people all of the time?  Is it possible for us all to be happy?  What makes me happy might make you unhappy?
So here’s a chance for us to reflect on the world we live in and to see how it motivates and influences.
How do you see being happy?  What does it mean to you?
Is happiness the same as pleasure?
But what is it that lasts?  More than a fleeting feeling, something that can take the ups and downs that life throws at us.  What is it that can ebb and flow as our life circumstances change.
The one remaining factor each time when we think about it – is relationships.  Once we have our basic needs of food, warmth and shelter being connected with people is our next most basic need.
Our world doesn’t always help us with this – the more stuff we need to get the less time we have to spend on relationships, the less time we spend the more our relationships don’t offer us the same depth of joy so we buy more stuff to fill the gap.  The more stuff we have the less time we have for others And the more our neighbour has the more we think we need and so it goes on!
Our connectedness with other people is what ultimately gives us a sense of value and our place in the world.  This should come as no surprise to us really.  I believe that as humans we are made in the image of God and God in the Christian faith is a God of relationships – the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  To be more like Jesus is to be in relationship both with God but also with each other.
The fruit of the spirit is joy.  So what can we take from these reflections on happiness and joy?  Is joy the same as happiness?
Joy is agitated happiness – shook up, fizzing, sometimes messy, energetic, lively Contentment is unagitated happiness – calm, deep, unshakeable
Ultimately as a Christian I believe joy is about hope, that things will be better, and that takes faith and hard work.  The world we live in is working towards a time when all things will be put right.  The bible promises that there will be a time when there is no more crying, death, suffering or pain.

So here are some thoughts for us to ponder this week.

  • Take a long term view, happiness is more than a fleeting pleasure
  • Happiness is good for you; don’t be ashamed to pursue it
  • Relationships are central to happiness, stay connected
  • Be active and engaged, throw yourself into meaningful pursuits
  • Look outwards, not inwards, focus your attention on other people and the world around you
  • Love unconditionally
  • Let children play