Flourishing – God’s best version of you

The world badly needs wise and flourishing human beings.  Life is not about any particular achievement or experience, the most important task is not what you know, but who you become.  Ironically becoming that person will never happen if your primary focus is on you…..God made you to flourish, but flourishing never happens by looking out for number one.

Your life is God’s project,…not yours,…the best version of you God can imagine,…

You need to receive life from outside yourself, creating vitality within yourself and producing blessing beyond yourself,….

Flourishing means moving towards God’s best version of you,….

Come and join us, Sundays, 5.10pm, for the next few weeks.

11-Sept        Why God made you

18-Sept       The me I don’t want to be

25-Sept        Discover the flow 

2-Oct           How do you grow?

9-Oct           The one decision that always helps 

16-Oct         Try softer

23-Oct 

30-Oct        Desires lead to God

6-Nov          Think great thoughts 

13-Nov        Feed your mind

20-Nov       Never worry alone

This material is based upon The me I want to be by John Ortberg. For me details go to

Faith & Doubt(4): The Catcher

In his book Faith & Doubt, John Ortberg describes the act of faith as being like the leap of a trapeze artist from one swinging bar to another. It’s an elegant and dynamic image of jumping, which some people call ‘The Leap of Faith’ from living without faith in God (doubting) to trusting ourselves fully into his hands.

Jumping…or letting go of one swinging bar…and for a moment…a split second floating…free fall through the air….just hoping that on the ‘other side’ there is someone to catch you.

In a way it’s a beautiful image, but it also shows just the risks and dangers involved…this is no decision you can change your mind about half way through. Often the decisions of our life require complete commitment to carry them through.

In order to make the journey of faith…one must relinquish control momentarily and let go. And as you let go, you are suddenly alone…flying…or free-falling in the open air…and through those split-seconds of flight…or falling….you must trust. It is all you can do…TRUST…and reach out… and hope and pray that the person on the other side will CATCH you…

John Ortberg is right to say that Our God…the God of the Bible… Jesus is a CATCHER….he stands faithfully on the other side. Better still engages in the swinging motion and risks of the trapeze catcher to make sure the person leaping is caught. John is so right about this…It is true that Our God is a catcher…or better put The Supreme Catcher.

But would you forgive me if I don’t just close the story there….and tell the story like that:

  • People doubt and don’t trust God
  • People begin to awaken to the love of God and begin to trust
  • People because they trust God….take a risk and jump
  • God because he loves people….always catches them and everything is all right in the end.

I am sorry but that’s not a story I can tell. It’s not what has happened in my life or in the experience of many people I have known personally or have read or heard about in the media. To me that is not the story I know and I’m not even sure it’s the story of the Bible we read either.

Here’s how I think the story goes:

  • People are thrown…hurled if you like… into a world that is both strange and wonderful….
  • They grow up the best way they can…enjoying whenever possible the goodness of the world…and family and friends, food and fun, clothing and shelter…but are constantly being tripped up or knocked back…
  • Some of us get it a lot easier than others…
  • Some of us get it a lot harder than others…
  • But all of us live with a mixture of good and bad in our lives… Sometimes jumping and being caught…
  • Other times jumping and falling flat on our faces…
  • Even worse not having the choice to jump, but being pushed, thrown off a cliff and just ‘praying’ (yes, I use that word deliberately….not for religious people…but for most if not all of us….praying that there will be somebody to catch us before we hit the bottom….

And you know what….?

John Ortberg is so right that God is the ultimate catcher…but you and I also know…

you and I know deep in our hearts….

Maybe we are even afraid to admit it…that so many people don’t get caught…

They get mangled.

They get crushed, as the hope they invested in ‘whatever’ was keeping them going be it family, teachers, friends…justice…fairness…good health….society…God…. fades right before their eyes…

…and they fall

…and they fall

…and they keep on falling until they hit the bottom

…and then…crash…..

Crash…and then silence

…and then tears and wails and fear and pain… or even worse just numbness…an inability to feel anything.

You know the nursery rhyme:

Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall,

Humpty Dumpty had a great fall,

All the King’s horses and al the King’s men,

couldn’t put Humpty together again.

You Tube Video Link: Humpty Dumpty animated cartoon

Isn’t that the story so many of us know?

Isn’t this how many people experience life?

The story…without a catcher?

Whether we like it or not this is the story many of us are familiar with.

Sometimes no-one seems to be around to catch us.

Before the Catcher…is the fall

And often after the fall…is the crash….

And then a lifetime of struggle to get by the best we can… with a limp …a broken body and soul…until we die.

End of story.

But is that the end of the story….?

Certainly, some would say there is no divine Catcher (no Catcher God)…just us human beings…you and me…and the mysterious forces of fate…or  Darwin’s evolutionary theory of survival of the fittest or perhaps we make our own luck.

Yet, in a good story…

there are twists and turns….

crises of pain and agony….yes!

But also moments of relief, kindness and love….

For many people although there may be nobody to stop their descent into chaos….there might be someone at the bottom to help pick up the pieces…

Is that someone The Catcher?

Not the person who stops the fall and the hard landing…but the one who gathers you up after the crash landing…

Is that what God means by catching?

And mostly it is a someone…a real person

…not a government system

…or a religious institution

…or a phantom deity…

…but a real flesh and blood person who sees the other’s pain…

…takes a hold of that fallen person

…and picks them up and starts as best they can to help try put them back together again.

When I was preparing for this talk I remembered a story that I had known since I was a child. It is a heroic story of good against evil and for many people it has become a modern myth.

It is the story from a comic strip which I have enjoyed since being a young lad.

A story about a young boy who early in life has a great fall.

A terrible, terrible, tragic fall….

The kind of fall that could break a person’s whole life…

What is his fall?

He loses his parents…

He loses his parents in a pointless and desperate act of crime….

That is to say the child loses his catchers.  The very people God and Nature intended to protect and catch a child when they fall.

This boy loses them.

And suddenly his world is devastated …ruined…

He is left alone. Kneeling on the cold, wet concrete of a dark city street with the two people he most dearly loved lying dead beside him…and gone…

How terrible this wound?

How dreadful this boy’s fall?

The trajectory of his whole life is altered in a moment.

He will never be the same again…

Yet, in all this harshness and cruelty…

In the midst of this young boy’s ultimate loss….

There is  still a glimpse of kindness and love.

A glimmer of light in all the darkness.

Some ONE steps into the gap…

Some ONE sees the need…

And picks the boy up and takes on a fatherly role.

An ‘adoptive father’.

A simple and uncomplicated man, who through attention and care, personal service and kindness and shear determination refuses to allow the grieving boy to be overwhelmed by the evil that has struck his family….

Who is this child?

Well, for many people they relate to this story because the boy could be them. It could be their father or mother who was lost to them as a child. Maybe through an accident, maybe through illness, maybe just through becoming overwhelmed with the struggles of life. We could feel orphaned. Perhaps, for some it wasn’t a literal death of their parents through a bullet shot by a criminal, but it could be through a symbolic loss of care to over-work, poverty, addiction or the living nightmare of abuse….

The boy in the comic book story we know by the name Bruce…Bruce Wayne,

…and the adoptive Father…his catcher, if you like, we know as Alfred…. Alfred Pennyworth… the Wayne Family’s Butler.

In the story, the boy eventually becomes a man…

and the man takes up the mantle of a hero.

The hero we know as The Batman… a great modern mythic, crime-fighting hero….

But before the hero is born… is the story of a little boy’s tragedy….

And the hero is born, not a monster or an emotional cripple, because the tragedy is partially, if not fully redeemed by a man…through the love of an adoptive catcher….not a crime fighting superhero….but the quiet, simple heroism of a man who when he sees a little boy’s life crash…. Chooses to stay with him….

…and take him under his care….

A different kind of hero…no doubt, but a hero nonetheless….a Catcher.

The Batman story is a great story isn’t it? But it is just that isn’t it… a story…that is a fictional story? What about real life?

Are there people whose lives are really so damaged as Bruce Wayne’s?

And are there really men and women who will step in the gap like Alfred and catch a person as they fall, plummeting to the ground?

Reflection

For a moment I would like you just to be quiet and think. I would like you to ask yourself if in your life there have been any people like the character of Alfred the Butler in the video clip, who have helped ‘catch’ you when you have fallen when times have been hard?

Can you think of anyone?

Can you think of more than one person who have gone out of there way to intervene and care?

After you have had time to think in quiet, spend a few moments talking with your neighbour about the ‘catcher’ or ‘catchers’ in your life?

Response

Could most people mention one person?

Would any of you like to say about the people who have been ‘catchers’ in their lives?

Did anyone really struggled to think of one at all?

Could any of you list a few people who had caught them when they had fallen?

Perhaps, not now, but later we could thank God for those people in our lives or if it is still possible thank them ourselves.

A Personal Story

I am very fortunate. When i think of the ‘catchers’ in my life I can think of many or at least more than 2 or 3.

I think about my Grandparents from my Father’s side who took me in to their home for two weeks and gently and calmly loved and cared for me, when I first became a Christian at University in London in 1995. I was 21 and incredibly convicted of my selfishness and guilt. I was also suffering from a nervous breakdown.

I remember one day when I sat in my Nanna and Grandpa’s kitchen dreading the anger and judgement of God, because in my mind I had done such terrible things. My grandpa who had seen active duty in the second World War knelt down in front of me and said: “David, have you killed anybody?”

And I said: “No.”

And my Grandpa said: “Then you haven’t committed the worst sin.”

And in his mind that was the extent of his simple, church going theology…to kill someone was the worst sin…and I hadn’t done that. So, whatever i had done could be forgiven and dealt with. I was terrified of committing sins that were too bad to be forgiven, but my Grandpa knew that whatever my sins they were not impossible to overcome with God’s help and therefore Iw as going to be OK….

And there are many others…. Not least my parents and my brother… so I guess I am a very fortunate man…In fact I don’t guess it. I know it…I am a very blessed and lucky man.

But what about God?

What do these people… these catchers…. tell us about God?

And never mind comics and films… what about the Bible?

What does the Bible tell us?

What does Jesus say about being a catcher?

The passage I am going to turn to is one from the beginning of Luke’s Gospel. It is a passage early on in Jesus’ ministry and work, when Jesus ‘as it was his custom’ stops by on a Sabbath (that is a day of rest, which was and is every saturday for a Jewish person) in a synagogue (a local church to us) and reads a passage from the Prophet Isaiah in the Old Testament.

When need to understand as people looking back 2000 years to the stories of the Bible that if Jesus read or quoted something from the Jewish Scriptures or Bible then it was really important and it meant something significant for him and for the people around him. If the writer of the Gospel of Luke puts it at the beginning of his book about Jesus then it is really important for us to pay attention and listen. Luke is telling us that Jesus must have believed that these words from the Book of Isaiah are REALLY important. We need to pay attention. Here is how Luke tells the story and what Jesus says. Luke writes:

Luke 4: 14-21

14 Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit, and news about him spread through the whole countryside. 15 He was teaching in their synagogues, and everyone praised him.

16 He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read, 17 and the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written:

18 “The Spirit of the Lord is on me,

because he has anointed me

to proclaim good news to the poor.

He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners

and recovery of sight for the blind,

to set the oppressed free,

19 to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

20 Then he rolled up the scroll, gave it back to the attendant and sat down. The eyes of everyone in the synagogue were fastened on him. 21 He began by saying to them, “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.”

When Jesus reads this passage he is telling us exactly what He is about…the kind of work he is doing,  the type of society he wants to live in, the kind of values he believes in, and the power he is operating with.

What is more is that it also means that Jesus is telling his audience the Jewish people at the time and all of humanity since, including us… exactly the kind of work, society, values and power that God, Jesus’ Father is also about.

So what does it mean?

Well, marvelously it means that Jesus and God have come to earth to carry out a rescue mission to the ‘fallen’….yes, ‘fallen’ world we live in. Suddenly, a new kind of person…a new dynamic is unleashed on Creation and society and He is  different!

This new thing IS different!

It is different and new because it is about rescuing…it is not about trying the best you can in life to manage with the broken life you have been handed, but it is about renewal…a giving back of life and health and freedom and peace to those who have been living all their lives without it.

Suddenly, Jesus says to the small Jewish community in Nazareth gathered together in that dry and dusty synagogue:

“I am THE Messenger of God.

God’s Breath of Life, his Hurricane, mighty Power is resting on me

And this whirlwind-God-power flows on me, like the oil of a priest and of a king running all down my forehead, not water but thick, rich, perfumed oil…

And you know why I the Messenger… have come as a priest and a king… it is to do one thing…

It is to proclaim to YOU poor people…Yes, You guys and gals, old men and women, babies and children…all of you beaten up and oppressed and suffering folk who have fallen in your lives and fallen and fallen with no one to catch you until you crashed and broke against the unforgiving concrete of life… I have come to you to shout out from the rooftops absolutely, brand spanking new…totally wholesome…totally awesome….Good News!

Do you know what this Good News means?

It means this, people…

It means… freedom for the prisoners….that’s liberty I’m talking about an you spell it capitol FREEDOM….freedom for people trapped in the harshness and barrenness of life’s circumstances.

It means…. blind men walking about, playing football and telling you what  beautiful rainbow colored day light they see…when they used to live in the 24hours 7 days a week pitch blackness of night.

It means you little guys chained up by injustice and cruelty and brutality and meanness get out of prison ABSOLUTELY FREE. Fresh as daisy with a spring in your step with a chance to start life brand new again.

And why, do I hear you ask, has the messenger come with this Holy and Awesome message?

Here’s why, brothers and sisters, because debt-free day has finally come along…Jubilee the ancients called it…well now you know….the day of God’s Big Smile and big handout has finally come about, his big favour for you…and its starting right now in this little, dusty, dry, insignificant town with you lot….God’s Happy Day is starting with You!”

The people are stunned….

That’s not what our normal preachers say…are you quite sure? Are you quite sure you are not out of your mind? And aren’t you from around here? Aren’t you Mary and Joseph’s son? Haven’t we known you since you were a little rug rat, crawling about in the sand pit?

For some people the message is hard to accept…

They have got accustomed to their chains and their poverty and the hierarchy where even the one legged beggar is better than the blind beggar and everyone has someone they are higher up than. Unfortunately, some people are so familiar with darkness that they struggle to see light even when it burst through the curtains of their mind and shines right into their souls….

But Jesus is undeterred…He has stated his mission and he has begun at home…often the hardest place to preach….and from now on he will take this message across Israel and his disciples will begin to take it not just around Israel and Judea, but beyond Israel’s borders into neighbouring lands and eventually across continents and seas and civilizations and time.

A message of God coming back into life to catch those people broken by falls. Their suffering may still be remembered, but their wounds will be completely healed…and happiness and day light and sunbeams and fresh, sweet water will characterize a person life.

And as the Catcher God moves through Jesus and through Jesus’ followers…people will be healed…one by one… and society will begin to change and the cold, short days of winter will be replaced by the glorious warmth and light of summer.

As C. S. Lewis once said: the life after this life will not be like the autumn and winter after the summer, but it will be like the ending of the school term… and the beginning of the summer holidays!

So, it is with the Kingdom of God – Jesus the Catcher and the Redeemer…it’s like the beginning of a new dawn…the start of a summer holidays that will not run out after six weeks, but will go on and on and get better and better forever.

For many people life is a shattered by terrible falls that smash their lives…Perhaps naturally, they presume that there can’t be a God or they reason that God either doesn’t care or has a bitter and cruel streak. As one person said to me recently: “I don’t know if God exists or not, but if he does he’s a cruel bugger.”

Part of me thinks that is a natural…even if a mistaken…assumption to make, and as Christians…as religious believers…we could argue with them and tell them how wrong they are.

Or we could do something else?

We could open our hands and hearts, our souls and minds to the message Jesus spoke 2000 years ago…that God was starting a new thing…where his people his messengers would bring rainbow colored good news of freedom, healing, wealth and love to people brutalized and hurt by the falls of life.

In this way they could…we could put aside the intellectual arguments of who is right or wrong…and start a revolution of love, goodness and peace.

We could become Catchers….Catchers like Alfred the butler in the comic book…Catchers like Clive and my Grandpa in my life…Catchers like Jesus of Nazareth….People…and I emphasize that word…people who go out into the world to lift people up and out of their suffering and set them free from their financial and spiritual and emotional prisons.

Do you want to be that kind of person?

Do you want to be a catcher?

Would you like to be a Catcher living and working for a Catcher God?

My prayer for you, for all of us, especially for the Bridge, but also for the whole Christian Church in this country… is that we will get a new vision of what it means to be a Christian and what it means to be a follower of Jesus Christ. It means being a Catcher because our God is a catcher God.

One last story. Heidi and Rolland Baker & Iris Ministries Mozambique

Heidi and Rolland Baker are two American Christians who decided to follow God’s call to live and work as missionaries to the people and country of Mozambique. Mozambique at the time of there decision to move there was according to UN statistics the poorest country in the whole world. They went and lived there with only limited resources and were given an abandoned, but inhabited orphanage to look after. The orphans many of whom had lost their parents (had fallen) during Mozambique’s bloody civil war….were left to scavenge and slept on concrete floors living without food, clothing, education or care in a place without proper sanitation. Rolland and Heidi Baker took the orphanage on and transformed it…They provided fresh water, clothing, soap, medicines and bedding. They renovated the kitchen to prepare fresh bread  for children and local people to eat. They taught the kids about Jesus and the children joined in willingly and freely into the worship services they organized. 100s becoming Christians and all the children calling Heidi and Rolland…Mama Aida and Papa Rolland!

(An excerpt from the book – There is Always Enough by Heidi and Rolland Baker)

Heidi and Rolland took in the poorest and most disheveled and broken and wounded people Mozambique had the abandoned orphans and street children who scavenged and sold themselves in order to survive. In the poorest country int the world. Heidi and Rolland went to the poorest people in the poorest country in the world….the abandoned children.

Somewhere in the Bible one man speaks of the kind of religion God really appreciates. The man is James the Brother of Jesus some called him and he speaks a pretty fiery word. He says:

“This is the kind of religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself being polluted by the world.” James 1: 27

The Bible tells us that God is a Catcher….Our God is a Catcher God. In the book of Deuteronomy in the Old Testament it is written:

The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.

Deuteronomy 33:27 (NIV 1984)

These words are so very true.

But I think they should come with a clause. I don’t think that it means that God Himself will catch every person falling and stop them from being hurt. I think what it means is that God in Jesus Christ is sending his people to be rescuers and catchers for those who are broken or breaking. God tells us to go out into the dark, poor and oppressed places of this world to catch the wounded. People will not see that God is a catcher God…until we his people become catchers like Jesus too.

Faith & Doubt(3): The Silence of God

You Tube Video Link: Alexandra Burke – The Silence

Alexandra Burke – The Silence

You lift me up
 and knock me down

I’m never sure just what to feel when you’re around

I speak my heart 
but don’t know why

Cause you don’t never really say what’s on you mind

It’s like 
I’m walking on broken glass, 
I wanna know but I don’t wanna ask

So say you love me
 or say you need me

Don’t let the silence 
do the talking
. Just say you want me 
or you don’t need me

Don’t let the silence
 do the talking

It’s killing me
(love in silence)

It’s killing me
(love in silence)

It’s killing me
(love in silence)

You let me in
 but then sometimes
 your empty eyes just make me feel so cold inside
When I’m with you
 it’s like rolling dice

Don’t know where or how you’re gonna make me cry

So say you love me
 or say you need me

Don’t let the silence
 do the talking

Just say you want me 
or you don’t need me

Don’t let the silence 
do the talking

It’s killing me
(love in silence)

It’s killing me, yeah
(love in silence) 
Wooooo
(love in silence)

It’s like
 I’m (I’m) walking on (walking on) broken glass

I wanna know but I don’t wanna ask

‘Cause once you say it 
you can’t take it back

And if  this is the end and, please just fake it fast

So say you love me

Or say you need me

Don’t let the silence (ooohhhh)
Do the talking

Just say you want me (say you want me)

Or you don’t need me (but you don’t want me)

Don’t let the silence
Do the talking

Wooooooh
(love in silence)

You lift me up 
and knock me down

I’m never sure just what to feel when you’re around

Let’s face it in today’s world we struggle with silence.  There is so much noise, that even when we say we are going to be silent, we can often stil hear background music or the drone of cars going by.

When was the last time you experienced silence, total silence?

And then perhaps even then all you could hear was the chatter of your mind still running at 100 mph, thinking about this, deciding about that, worrying about the other.

How many of us wish we could turn off that noise too?

Maybe some of us are able to?

Alexandra Burke says “Don’t let the silence do the talking.”  How can that be?

There is a BBC1 programme on Mon and Tues nights at the moment.  Some of you might watch it.  It is called Silent Witness. How can that be?  When you stop to  think about that on the one hand it makes no sense at all and yet on the other hand we know what it means.

You might have used the phrase “Silence is louder than words.”  Is that what Alexandra Burke means in her song?

The opening lyrics say:

You lift me up
 and knock me down

I’m never sure just what to feel when you’re around

I speak my heart,
but don’t know why

Cause you don’t never really say what’s on you mind

That’s the kind of doubt that kills.  It kills relationships stone dead.  You don’t know where you are, you don’t know how to be, you just don’t know and confusion rains.  When that happens we tend to walk away, walk away from the relationship, but perhaps we should seek to find out more.

And into what can often be the confusion of our earthly relationships Christians introduce the idea of Jesus the Son, God the Father and the Holy Spirit and our need to be in relationship with them.  A God, whom we cannot prove, or disprove for that matter, exists.  A relationship that we are called to live through faith and not certainty.

Our relationships with people have a lot to do with our faces.  Body language accounts for 90% of what we say.  Through peoples faces we can see if someone agrees with us.  We can see in an instant if people we know are happy, sad, angry, upset.  With people we know less well we can sometimes struggle with how they are.  We find it more difficult to read their faces, they might be good at hiding what is going on inside their head.  We can see if someone is paying attention to us, if they look at us, make eye contact, nod or shake their head accordingly.

But if we cannot see a persons face the whole communication process becomes a lot more difficult.  If I walk away from someone who is talking to me what am I saying?

I don’t want to listen to you

I wish you would shut up

I don’t want to be with you

You are wrong

You’re not worth listening to.

They don’t care.

As I walk away and the distance gets longer then I hope not to be able to hear them at all!

No wonder sometimes we struggle with the reality of our topic tonight – the silence of God. We can’t see his face, we are not sure if he has walked away, or is even there at all.

Discussion

  • If someone is silent what do you assume?
  • If God is silent what do you think has happened?
  • How do you deal with the silence of God?

I reckon there are 2 simple questions to ask when it comes to the silence of God.

  1. Who is silent?
  2. Why are they silent?

Let’s face it there are times when we are silent.  There are times when things have not worked out as we had hoped and to be honest we are in strop.  “I don’t want to talk to God, what has he ever done for me” usually said with our arms crossed and an angry expression on our face.

There are times when things have not worked out and we can quite happily walk away.. Toxic doubt, confusion kills the relationship, dead, stone dead.

We might feel that God has left us.  We might feel that God does not care about me.  Can I just say that ‘feeling’ the presence of God is not the only or even primary evidence for his presence.  Jesus said the primary evidence for his presence is by fruitfulness and not certainty.  Feelings come and go, we should listen to them, but to do so solely is a big mistake.

Sometimes God is silent, it is true, we have to accept that reality.  But some times God is silent for a reason.

God cannot look upon wrong doing.  The picture in the Bible is of God turning his face away from us.  The relationship has been broken and needs to be remade.  There is a barrier in the way of our relationship and it needs to be dealt with.  There is good news but the only way that wrong doing can be dealt with is to say we are sorry and ask God to forgive us.  Nothing silences God like wrong doing. He is the Maker he knows how best for us to live, even though we might not think that he does.

I think there are times when God is silent on purpose but he is still close, in fact so close we could touch him, but he is silent.  He has not turned his face away, he is still looking at us, smiling but he silent.  He is silent because he trusts us. Wow, hold on a minute, God trusts us. He trusts that we know him and the only way we are going to get to know him more is for him to be silent.  A bit like a parent who wants to see a child beginning to grow up.  OK God will speak if we are going to hurt ourselves but how on earth will we ever grow up if we are not left to get on with it and make mistakes.

The problem sometimes is that we struggle to accept it is time for us to grow up.

Faced with the silence of God I think there are 2 questions to ask. They are relational questions, that need to be asked with others who we trust and with God.

Who is silent?

Why are they silent?

7Listen, God, I’m calling at the top of my lungs:

“Be good to me! Answer me!”

8When my heart whispered, “Seek God,”

my whole being replied,

“I’m seeking him!”

9Don’t hide from me now!

You’ve always been right there for me;

don’t turn your back on me now.

Don’t throw me out, don’t abandon me;

you’ve always kept the door open.

10My father and mother walked out and left me,

but God took me in.

11Point me down your highway, God

direct me along a well-lighted street;

show my enemies whose side you’re on.

12Don’t throw me to the dogs,

those liars who are out to get me,

filling the air with their threats.

13I’m sure now I’ll see God’s goodness

in the exuberant earth.

14Stay with God!

Take heart. Don’t quit.

I’ll say it again:

Stay with God.

Psalm 27: 7-14 (The Message)

Faith & Doubt (2): Longing for Home

This evening our theme is Longing for home.

Any of us whatever our age will know what that feels like – at the end of a long car journey home or after a difficult day at work or school.  We shall be exploring where home is for us as humans beings or are we homeless?  Our first song this evening talks about how God looks out for each one of us and offers us love and compassion no matter what we’ve got involved with in the past.

Audience song –Everyone needs compassion

Bible Reading: John 14:1-2 (The Message)

“Don’t let this throw you.  You trust God, don’t you?  Trust me.  There is plenty of room for you in my Father’s home.  If that weren’t so, would I have told you that I’m on my way to get a room ready for you?  And if I’m on my way to get your room ready, I’ll come back and get you so you can live where I live.  And you already know the road I’m taking.”

T Mobile Advert at Heathrow Arrivals Hall 2010

T mobile organized this event as part of their advertising campaign but it was amazing how it made those there feel.  We all want to feel welcomed home, that we belong and we matter.  Our friends and family can make that a reality for us.  We can make it a reality for others.

Last week we looked at the place of doubt in our everyday lives.  This week we are looking at where our home is or whether we are homeless.  We are still working our way through John Ortberg’s book Faith and Doubt.

Some time ago people believed themselves to be the chosen of God, made in his image, his creation.  Nowadays we find ourselves on a tiny planet on the edge of a humdrum galaxy amongst billions like it.  We are but accidents.  So is this home – this sense of drifting purposely through the universe?  Are human beings at home in the universe? Are we here by accident or design?  Are we homesick because we have no home or because we are away from home?

To be homeless is more than needing a bed for the night, its an attack on our identity – who are we?

A lot is made today about what science can prove and disprove about our world and our existence in it.  Some would say you have to choose between science and faith.

Over 1500 hundred years ago a guy called Augustine wrote a book about the literal meaning of Genesis, even then he said that to hear a Christian speaking nonsense about creation, claiming its basis in the Bible was disgraceful and caused embarrassment.  Now whilst I may disagree with Augustine in some of his other writings particularly those about women, he seems to make sense to me here.

Genesis is not a modern science book, its premise is that God made all things, the mechanics of how that happened should not overshadow that God made something from nothing.  How did that happen?  “get your own dirt!” to create with!!

As human beings I believe that a large sense of our having home is rooted in God having made our home.  When he first made it it was perfect and glorious.  Life since then has been spoiled by our selfishness and unwillingness to walk with God.  The world was made to be our home and yet it is not our home.  It has gone wrong.  This sense of not being home tells us something about ourselves though.  The Bible reading we had from John 14 tells us that a home needs relationships.  There will be many rooms in our Father’s house Jesus says – the challenge is trust.  Trust God, trust me says Jesus.

Trust requires us to walk with God, to  talk and share our lives with him.  Just like we can get used to old and tatty furniture or household items that need repairing so too can we get used to our walk with God being like our routine commute to work.  We don’t notice much around us and sometimes we wonder how we actually got to work

As I thought more about this being home and coming home idea this week I couldn’t help but think of the journeys that are made through an airport.  There’s the departure lounge where there is a mixture of excitement as the journey begins or sadness as farewells have to be made.  We carry all of the things that matter to us for the journey in our luggage.  There’s baggage that we can hand over that we won’t need until we arrive and there’s hand luggage we need for the journey.

There’s passport control where we have to prove our identity and be vouched for by our government as an OK person to travel.

Sometimes there’s a lot of sitting around and waiting, sometimes everything happens very quickly and there’s a jostle and a push as the traveling crowd want to get on first or find a seat.

Then there’s the journey itself, sometimes at night in the dark with not much to see, sometimes at dawn when the sun rises and beautiful coulours shine their way across the sky.  The journey can be smooth or bumpy, our fellow passengers can make it a delight or pure torture.  There’s the fear of what we might find when arrive or the excitement of exploring new horizons.

Then when we’ve landed at our destination joy of joys – there’s the baggage carousel.  Why did we bring so much?  What if its got lost?  Can you manage without your luggage?

Then there’s still more identity’s to be proved, questions about how long we’re staying and what are we bringing with us.

And finally there’s the arrivals lounge!  Are we greeted and welcomed?  Is anyone there for us?

Luggage labels for your journey.  You might like to take it home, tie it to your case or purse to remind you that you are on a journey in this world and that you are on your way home.  You might like to write on it some baggage that you would like to leave behind and not take on that journey.  You might like to write your name on it, safe in the knowledge that God knows you by name.

And the final picture for you to keep in mind this evening is that as you enter the arrivals lounge, God will be there with a huge banner saying welcome home!

Faith & Doubt (1): Doubt

Over the next 4 weeks we are going to be looking at faith and doubt.  Our series will be based around a book of the same title by a man called John Ortberg.  He lives in the USA and pastors a large

Church in California. He is the author of quite a few books including, “If you want to walk on water then you have to get out of the boat” and “Everybody is normal ‘til you get to know them’.

Now on many levels you might be able to understand why a Christian community would spend time looking and learning about faith.  It is something that is talked about throughout the bible.  In many of the stories told about Jesus faith plays a part and often an important role.  Some people took a risk of faith to see their much loved daughter healed (Matt 11;23) or even a daughter brought back ti life (matt 9;21).. Even the blind when they came in contact with Jesus are healed because of their faith. (Mk 10).

Jesus urges his Disciples to have faith, telling them if they had faith the size of a mustard seed they would eb able to move a mountain.. (Matt 11;20).  Most of us at this point choose to believe that Jesus was only speaking figuratively and that we could do nothing of the sort.  The followers of Jesus, his Disciples, are reprimanded for not having faith  at all (Mark 4), they are also put into situations by Jesus where Jesus wants to stretch their faith like it is a piece of elastic.  (John 6)

When it comes to the people who Christians often look up it is those who were full of faith.  Those, who, despite circumstances, the odds, the seemingly impossible, kept the faith, somehow, and came through – with a faith that had grown larger.

Our problem often is a little bit more like this.

Can you identify with Mr Bean?

Turn and talk to a neighbour about what you might have in common with Mr Bean.

Let me tell you a secret.  Many of you will perhaps struggle to understand this to be true, but….I have doubts.

I grew up in a Christian family, My dad was the Pastor of a church. I have always been a part of Church.  My wife is a Christian, I have been to Bible College and have a degree in theology,  but I have doubts.

You see I am like Mr Bean, full of bravado whilst at the bottom of the steps of the high diving board, but it all looks very different at the top looking down.  I don’t mind the dark, but I do not like not being able to see

I have doubts.

Don’t get me wrong I have faith too, sometimes it is smaller than a mustard seed and will just get me through the day. At others times I, often along with other people, have had faith the size of a mustard seed and we have seen mountains move.

And I still doubt.

Why is that some people faced with life circumstances will find that their faith is brought into severe question so much so that eventually they walk away from God.  Faith has left  them and they see no reason to carry on believing.  And other people will look at them and say “I wonder what happened to their faith.”

Why is that some people faced with life circumstances will find that their faith is brought into severe question so much so that eventually their faith grows and they begin mature and other people look at them and say “I wish I had their faith

Why is it that tragedy destroys faith in some people whilst in others faith is born anew and refreshed.  There is a mystery here to faith, that we cannot fully understand.

But faith and doubt have always been a part of my life.  There have been times when it has been too difficult to pray because I was not even sure that God would listen. There have been times when doubt in my life has forced me to grow up and mature in my faith. Doubt has forced me to go back to the Bible, to read books, to pray, to talk with trusted wiser friend, to wrestle with what I believe and why.

But I think there is a partner to faith and doubt that we have not mentioned.  I think their partner or even their friend is honesty.  When you live in relationship with Jesus it has to be based on honesty.  Look at the story of Israel from the OT and it is their dis-honesty, their unreality that got them into trouble.

It is Ok to say that I am not sure that I have enough faith to see this through in an open honest relationship with Jesus.  It is when we start to kid ourselves that everything is going to be OK and I can see this through when I think problems begin arise and we are in danger of becoming self-sufficient.

The other side of that coin is that we do not believe that God is big enough to pull through.  We make God too small and we don’t tell him that we think he is too small and that he cannot help.

The situations are different but it might just be the lack of honesty with Jesus and our loving Heavenly Father that drains faith and doubt begins to figure too large in our thinking.

I was chatting with some one this week, he is a good friend who I see failry reguraly. I am accountable to him.  I had putlined some of the things that are going in life and he said you might never have the chance to faith them again in the next 10 years.  What is God tryng to teach you?  You might never get this chance again don’t miss it, grab it with both hands.,  As we chatted and shared a drink he helped my faith to grow.

Those of us who are strong and able in the faith need to step in and lend a hand to those who falter, and not just do what is most convenient for us. Strength is for service, not status. 2Each one of us needs to look after the good of the people around us, asking ourselves, “How can I help?”

Romans 15; 1-2 the Message

Billy Graham was once asked when he was near 90, if he beloved that after he died he will hear God say to him, “Well done, good an faithful servant,”  He paused before answering, almost struggling to articulate what he believed and said “I hope so”